A Day in the Life
By ParaGirl
This is just a
short story about how I think my days would be if I
were handicapped in the way I would like to be- DBK amputee
and
Paraplegic.
I wake up with
my alarm and hit snooze at least once.
I do hate
mornings, I really do.
I sit up in bed and rub the sleep from my eyes,
then pull my nightshirt off over my head, leaving me
naked. I scoot to
the edge of the bed and place one hand on my wheelchair and
one
hand on the bed, lifting myself and transferring over to my
chair.
Using my hands, I lift my legs and place them in front of me
in the
chair, stumps hanging over the edge of the chair. I unlock my Quickie
and head into the bathroom.
I wheel up to
the counter and first brush my teeth, then try to brush
some of the tangles out of my hair. The counter is low and the mirror
is at the perfect angle for me at wheelchair height. Everything in my
house is wheelchair accessible, from the toilet to the
washing machine.
You couldn’t believe how handy a front-loading washing
machine is to
a girl like me. I
wheel next over to the shower and turn on the water,
selecting the perfect temperature. There is a custom seat in the shower
that I transfer onto by locking my chair alongside the tub,
then using
both the chair and the tub grab bar for support and half
lifting, half
sliding my crippled lower body into the seat.
In the shower
chair, I take the shower head from it’s hangar on the
wall, easily within my reach, and turn the hot spray
on. First I’ll rinse
my body off all over, wetting my hair, then I grab my Lufa
sponge and
squirt some body wash onto it. I start with my stumps, lifting one and
rubbing it down with the lufa, scrubbing it’s soft round
end, then I do
the same for the other, lifting it up and washing it. It’s so strange not
to be able to feel anything from the waist down, seeing
these little soft
fleshy stumps and not feeling them. Sometimes I wish I could feel
them, just to know what they would feel like.
I continue to
wash myself, first my unfeeling lower body, then my
upper, scrubbing my stomach and arms and chest, then washing
my
back with my world-famous ‘Lufa-on-a-stick’. Next I wash my hair
with a nice herbal shampoo.
It smells like apricots, I think.
Finally I
take the shower head again and turn it back on, rinsing
myself off
completely. When I’m
all rinsed off, I throw a big terry-cloth towel
onto my wheelchair- I hate a wet wheelchair- and transfer
back into it.
I begin to dry myself off, first my little leg stumps and
thighs, my
stomach and arms and chest.
I dry my hair a little with the towel and
wrap the towel around my head, wheeling back into my
bedroom.
I toss the towel
from my head into the laundry basket and wheel
over to my dresser.
I select some thong panties, some nylons, and a
bra and lay them out at the foot of the bed. I then go to my closet, also
modified for me, and get a gray skirt and matching blazer
along with a
white blouse. As a
receptionist, I have to dress professionally, and as a
woman I always like to dress nice, play up my assets.
I wheel back to
my bed and lay the clothes out on it. I
then transfer
back onto the bed, tossing the towel off my wheelchair, and grab my
panties. I slide
them over my stumps and pull them up to my thighs,
then wiggle until I get them all the way up. Next comes the nylons.
Because my legs are amputated, I wear knee-hi’s, which come
all the
way up on me. I
lift one stump, then slide the soft nylon over the
round end. I pull
the stocking up almost to my crotch and smooth it
out, putting my leg back down. I do the same for the other leg, pulling
the stocking up high, then smoothing it out and
straightening the
seam. My stumps look
cuter and firmer in the nylons, which is why I
love to wear them.
Next I put on my bra. My breasts
aren’t huge, but
they’re more than a mouthful, as the saying goes. I wear sport bras,
usually, because they’re much more comfortable for me. I go through
quite an upper-body workout every day, just getting around, so I try to
stay comfortable. I
put on my blouse and button it up, then grab my
skirt. To put my
skirt on, I pull it over my head and down to my
waist, so my blouse is already tucked into it, then I fasten
it with a
zipper and a button on the side. I then scoot to the edge of the bed and
transfer back into my wheelchair, straightening my skirt as
I do so.
not that difficult, when you get used to it.
Before I put the
blazer on, I wheel back into the bathroom to do my
hair. I blow it dry,
put a little mousse in it, make sure it looks just
right. I put on a
drop of ‘Navy’ perfume and a little color on my
cheeks. I go mostly
without makeup, but I wear a little blush now and
then.
I wheel back
into the bedroom and put on the blazer, buttoning it
and making sure it looks right. I put on a small pair of gold hoop
earrings and a small gold chain to complete the outfit. I wheel out of
the bedroom and down the hall.
In the kitchen I
drop a bagel into the toaster and pull some orange
juice and sour cream out of the fridge. The bagel pops up and I have
that and my OJ before heading out the door. I grab my purse and put
it on my lap, grab my car keys and head out the door. The front door
to my house has a ramp which follows a gentle slope to my
driveway,
where my Saturn is parked.
I love my Saturn, it’s all hand-controlled
and very easy for me to transfer in and out of, as well as
drive. I open
the door and hold onto the doorjam and my wheelchair and
transfer
into the seat. It’s
easy because the seat is custom made, it swivels out
so it faces the door when I transfer in or out of the
car. I sit squarely
in the seat, bringing my legs over and placing them right,
then hit the
switch and the seat swivels into driving position. I then tug on the
strap on the back of my Quickie and the seat folds in on
itself. I
release the wheels from the chair and put them over me into
the back
seat, then I take the body of the chair and lift it into the
seat beside me.
It only weighs 12 pounds, so it’s not difficult for me to
move around.
My drive to work
is about 25 minutes each day, not a bad commute,
and I make it into my designated handicapped parking spot
with
plenty of time to spare.
I pull my chair out of the car and put the
wheels back on it, locking it together and then pivoting my
car seat
out. I love watching
my stumps as I do this part, because they hang
there and wiggle a little as the seat pivots. They look so cute like that.
I transfer
back into my wheelchair and lock the car, then wheel
into my building. I
love working here, because although most people
don’t realize it, this place is almost as
wheelchair-accessible as my
house. All the doors
and entrances have ramps and automatically
open for me, all the restrooms have at least one handicapped
accessible
stall and sink/mirror, and the lunchroom has a lower counter
with a
microwave on it that I can use and reach. There are three other
women in wheelchairs here, one amputee and two paraplegics,
as well
as one male paraplegic, two blind women, and several hearing
impaired people. Oh,
and Roxanne down in accounting, who wears a
prosthetic arm. Al l
in all a nice place to work for anyone, disabled or
not.
-Eight hours of boring secretary stuff go
by, even my dream
disability couldn’t make this job exciting to the reader-
Back home at
5:30 from a day at work, I wheel back into my house
and toss my purse onto the chair by the door. In my bedroom, I slip
out of my blazer and shirt and transfer onto the bed. I take off my
skirt and nylons and get back into my wheelchair wearing
only bra and
panties. I pull my
sweatpants out of a drawer and a big Winnie the
Pooh sweatshirt from the closet. I pull the sweatshirt over my head
and start pulling the sweatpants over my stumps. The sweatpants are
sewed up at the legs where my stumps end, but they aren’t
tight or
sexy or form-fitting.
Of course, they are very comfortable and easy to
put on, even while sitting in my chair. Like my panties, all I have to
do is wiggle around a little and I can get them on
allright. Now
comfortably dressed,
I call to order a pizza and turn on the TV to
watch the news and whatever else is on. I love ‘Ellen’, ‘Mad About
You’, and ‘Friends’, but ‘Seinfeld’ I never really got
into. Oh, I also
LOVE ‘The Simpsons’.
Of course I wish there was at least ONE show
on TV that featured a girl in a wheelchair, you know??
The pizza
arrives. I love the look on the Pizza
girls’ (Or guys, it
was a girl tonight) face when I open the door. They never know what
to make of it, it takes them by suprise to see me grab the
pizza from
my wheelchair, but I pay her and give her a tip and carry
the pizza on
my lap into the kitchen to eat it.
-more time goes
by, just watching TV and, of course, hanging out
on-line-
Finally ready
for bed, I wheel into the bathroom to brush my teeth
and do what I need to do there. I wheel into the bedroom and park the
chair alongside the bed, transfer into bed, and strip all my
clothes off.
I put my nightshirt on and move myself into a comfortable
position,
lifting my stumps and putting them under the blanket. I set the alarm
and turn out the light, falling right to sleep.
-The End-